Ok, I’m not sure who this post is for today, but I feel led to encourage someone to cheer up and realize that it’s not your fault that you were born with a heart that’s capable of trusting to the point of exposing yourself to emotional heartbreak and harm.

It’s not your fault that many have taken for granted your ability to be loving and forgiving to the point of being taken advantage of again-and-again.  It’s not your fault for being born with a spirit that desires to please and bring joy to others.  So erase any thoughts that you’re less than adequate when it comes to attracting and keeping a good mate.  They were all just incapable of realizing and recognizing their “good thing” in you and that’s not your fault.

These characteristics are rare and admirable and something to be proud of and soon the day will come when you’re given your hearty approbation and affirmation of appreciation.   The day will come when you’ll breathe a sigh of relief as your faithfulness and trustworthiness is reciprocated.   The day will come when you’ll truly smile and say, “I am enough and a worthy companion is just a plus.”

I encourage you today to hang in there and refuse to let hardships, hang-ups, heartbreaks and hard-times bully you into changing your attitude and the essence of who you really are.  Your true “You” will indeed get you through without major compromise.  So, don’t give up on trusting yourself and continue to be yourself,  “B-U“.

Know and understand today that none of us are without flaws and imperfections and it’s our flaws and imperfections that make us perfect for that perfectly, imperfect person.   So continue to patiently “B – U” and it’ll see you through, after all, everybody else is already taken.  Let’s continue to make it GREAT!